I can understand increased vigilance, but the man here did nothing wrong. Women seem to feel that all men are rapists. She claims that no one believes a woman that reports an assault. That is total bullshit. Men are constantly having their lives and careers damaged by women who falsely accuse them of domestic violence, sexual assault, and sexual harassment.
I'm ashamed for feeling ashamed.
I expect more from myself. But I also expect more from that man, from any man.
What should men do? Avoid all women?